Une Fille Excitée

I go by many names but you may call me goddess or kitty. This blog is a collection of my various kinks, my thoughts on sex and sexuality and maybe some personal posts every once in a while. This space is meant to be sex-positive, body-positive and as diverse as possible. I'm always open to requests and submissions, so don't be a stranger, k?


I have two Thrill Solo G-Spot and Clitoral Vibrators (unopened in box!) I got for free when ordering plugs for my shop and they are regular 129.00!! They are waterproof,and charge with a usb ^_^ No batteries! 


Just reblog this,seriously all,and at the end of the week I’ll pick two people :) Simple as that! I already have one, so I literally have zero use for these!!


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Here is the link to the City Lab article and the link to the actual website, Turn On Detroit’s Water.

h/t to amomenttothink for retweeting this.


signal boost!


Reminder that Autistic Hoya designed these emergency disclosure cards. They’re free to print out.


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A NYC grad student working on food stamps for her thesis has released a free cookbook for those living on $4/day.



oooooh this is so nice!

I believe it’s important to eat well, even when you’re strapped for cash. It’s good for your health and energy! This cookbook is full of delicious and healthy recipes, the ingredients of which are fairly inexpensive.


Boost so hard. Feeding yourself well is a challenge when you”ve got little income

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  • Strip club customer: It must be so nice to just show your tits and get money!
  • Me: Bitch, did you not see me spinning on that pole upside down while holding all my weight with just my legs? I don't just "show my tits"





Trojan Condoms, 1993


Good advertising is good. Promotes safe sex and their own product!

i love that it promotes safe sex without saying that getting pregnant is the only thing you should be worried about

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I have two Thrill Solo G-Spot and Clitoral Vibrators (unopened in box!) I got for free when ordering plugs for my shop and they are regular 129.00!! They are waterproof,and charge with a usb ^_^ No batteries! 


Just reblog this,seriously all,and at the end of the week I’ll pick two people :) Simple as that! I already have one, so I literally have zero use for these!!


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Do You Love Someone With Depression?

If you have a partner or are close to someone who struggles with depression, you may not always know how to show them you love them. One day they may seem fine, and the next they are sad, distant and may push you away. It is important that you know that as a person who is close to them and trusted by them, you can help your friend or partner have shorter, less severe bouts of depression. Mental illness is as real as physical illness (it is physical actually, read more about that here) and your partner needs you as much as they would need to be cared for if they had the flu.

Your relationship may seem one-sided during these times, but by helping your partner through a very difficult and painful affliction, you are strengthening your relationship and their mental health in the long term.

1. Help them keep clutter at bay.

When a person begins spiraling into depression, they may feel like they are slowing down while the world around them speeds up. The mail may end up in stacks, dishes can pile up in the sink, laundry may go undone as the depressed person begins to feel more and more overwhelmed by their daily routine and unable to keep up. By giving your partner some extra help sorting mail, washing dishes or using paper plates and keeping chaos in check in general, you’ll be giving them (and yourself) the gift of a calm  environment. (I’m a fan of the minimalist movement because of this, you can read more about that here.)

2. Fix them a healthy meal.

Your partner may do one of two things when they are in a depressed state. They may eat very little, or they may overeat. In either case, they may find that driving through a fast food restaurant or ordering a pizza online is just easier than fixing a meal. Eating like this, or neglecting to eat will only degrade your partner’s health, causing her to go deeper into her depression. Help your loved one keep her body healthy, and her mind will follow. This is a great article that talks about the “Brain Diet” which can help the symptoms of depression, and this article talks about how our modern diet could contribute to the recent rise in depression. Here is a recipe for a trail mix that is quick to make and has mood-boosting properties.

3.Get them outside.

 The benefits of getting outside for a depressed person are huge. And it is possibly the last thing on earth your partner will want to do. Take them to be somewhere in nature. Pack a picnic and lie in the sun, take a leisurely hike or plant a garden. Being barefoot in the dirt, or “earthing” helps ground the body and reverse the effects of living in a world of emf’s, and digging in soil can actually act as an antidepressant, as a strain of bacterium in soil, Mycobacterium vaccae, triggers the release of seratonin, which in turn elevates mood and decreases anxiety. Sunshine increases Vitamin D production which can help alleviate depression. My friend Elizabeth wrote an excellent post about Vitamin D and its link to depression here.  For more information about other sources of Vitamin D, this is a great post as well as this.

4. Ask them to help you understand what they’re feeling.

If your partner is able to articulate what they are going through, it will help them and you better understand what you are dealing with, and may give insight into a plan of action for helping your partner. Also, feeling alone is common for a depressed person and anything that combats that feeling will help alleviate the severity and length of the depression.

5. Encourage them to focus on self-care.

Depressed people often stop taking care of themselves. Showering, getting haircuts, going to the doctor or dentist, it’s all just too hard, and they don’t deserve to be well taken care of anyway in their minds. This can snowball quickly into greater feelings of worthlessness since “Now I’m such a mess, no one could ever love me”. Help your loved one by being proactive. Tell them “I’m going to do the dishes, why don’t you go enjoy a bubble bath?” can give them the permission they won’t give themselves to do something normal, healthy and self-loving.

6. Hug them.

Studies show that a sincere hug that lasts longer than 20 seconds can release feel-good chemicals in the brain and elevate the mood of the giver and receiver. Depressed people often don’t want to be touched, but a sincere hug with no expectation of anything further can give your partner a lift.

7. Laugh with them.

Telling a silly joke, watching a comedy or seeing a stand up comedian will encourage your partner to laugh in spite of herself. Laughing releases endorphins and studies show can actually counteract symptoms of depression and anxiety.

8. Reassure them that you can handle their feelings.

Your partner may be feeling worthless, angry and even guilty while they are depressed. They may be afraid that they will end up alone because no one will put up with their episodes forever. Reassure them that you are in the relationship for the long haul and they won’t scare you away because they have an illness.

9. Challenge their destructive thoughts.

A depressed person’s mind can be a never-ending loop of painful, destructive thoughts. “I’m unlovable, I’m a failure, I’m ugly, I’m stupid”. Challenge these untruths with the truth. “You’re not unlovable, I love you. You aren’t a failure, here are all the things you’ve accomplished.”

10.Remind them why you love them.

Look at pictures of happy times you’ve had together. Tell them your favorite things about them. Reminisce about your relationship and all the positive things that have happened, and remind your partner that you love them and they will get through this.

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Asker Anonymous Asks:
So it took me three months of being scared before I told my boyfriend I wanted a tail... At first he was really understanding about it and good, saying maybe I should start with something small and woke up. And I agreed. But then for no reason he started making fun of me about it and made me feel disgusting and awful. He's being super nasty and I hate it. Normally he's a wonderful master. But now I feel like I can't trust him. What should I do?
tikachikita tikachikita Said:


Everything about this makes me both incredibly sad and terribly angry.

First of all, I want to give you the biggest hugs in the world for being so brave. I…I know how hard it is to talk about kinks, especially ones that involve pet play. I know it can be scary and overwhelming and a little embarrassing. You are so very brave.

At the same time, as a submissive/little/babygirl, you have a right to not be scared, overwhelmed, or embarrassed about it. You have a right to be supported, loved, and respected for your kinks and desires. You are beautiful and your kinks are beautiful too.

I know how exciting it is to want a tail and want to be a little kitten. And I am so incredibly angry that this is what happened when you told your master. I know you may not want to hear what I have to say but I also know that you came to us for help and guidance, which is what I have to give you.

You are right to not trust him. You are right to be angry or upset with him. And at this point, you have a right to break up with him over this. Let me explain why:

You opened yourself up to him. You were brave enough to share a very very important and secret part of you. And he not only took advantage of that, he also hurt you with it. He does not deserve your respect anymore. He doesn’t deserve YOU.

You need someone who will not only listen to your kinks but also welcome them and want to help you with them. When…when you told your Sir about your tail, he should have pulled you into his lap, held you tight, and let you tell him everything that made you excited about it. He should have helped you pick out a tail and ears and maybe a leash too. He should have helped you find a small plug, and then a bigger one, and so on, until you could take your tail comfortably. He should have helped you and made you feel so safe and loved and supported throughout the whole process.

Instead, he hurt you. And that is something that is so very unforgivable. You deserve a master who will love every single part of you. You deserve a master who will love his little kitten with all his heart. And you do not have that.

You are worth so much and he does not appreciate it at all. You deserve so much better. You deserve a master who is one hundred times the man he is.

I…I know this may not have been what you wanted to hear. And I’m only one person. But as a submissive who is lucky enough to have a Sir that has welcomed my tail and has helped me to become the happiest little kitten in the world, I am begging you to strongly consider leaving him and finding someone who is so much better for you. Find someone who will let you be the little kitten you want to be. Who will help you learn and grow and who will care for you like you deserve to be cared for.  Someone who will not abuse your trust that you place in him, and someone who will not shame you for your kinks.


If you need anything else, I’m right here. Please…please keep me updated. And please let me know if you need any more help.

The biggest of hugs,





the world wasn’t ready for his talent or honesty



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